There’s always someone in your immediate surroundings who always manages to irk you with their natural talent to promote themselves way too much. Sometimes when they overdo it, these people can even successfully ruin your day. But don’t let them do that to you. Consider these ways on how you cancope with self-promoters.
Stay away. Limit your encounter with self-promoters so you won’t have to put up with their airs. If your work doesn’t require you to work closely then it would be better for you to be in another room. If you don’t see them, you have more chances on having a good mood.
When the self-promoter starts endorsing him/herself, make an excuse so you won’t have to waste your time on it. You have the right to refuse to listen to anything you don’t find useful or worthwhile. The best that you can do is to refuse politely.
Beneath the narcissism, there is almost always a deep-rooted insecurity.Understand that some people need to promote themselves so that they will feel better about themselves. Self-promoting is one way to mask someone’s failures and frustrations.
Refuse to be involved with a narcissistic person. Narcissism will get to your nerves if the person is close to your heart, i.e. a lover. As much as you want to understand the reasons why your partner promotes herself way too often, you have to remember that you also have to protect your sense of self. A one-sided relationship is just not very fruitful.
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